Jul 16, 2023
Andy Cohen's Kids: Meet Ben and Lucy
Andy Cohen recently discovered his 4-year-old son, Ben, starts his day by eating potato chips. But Ben also appreciates a sweet breakfast. “Do you know why you might feel sick this morning?” Cohen
Andy Cohen recently discovered his 4-year-old son, Ben, starts his day by eating potato chips. But Ben also appreciates a sweet breakfast.
“Do you know why you might feel sick this morning?” Cohen asks Ben in an Instagram video posted on Aug. 30.
“Because you woke up and ate seven Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups out of the freezer,” the Bravo host, 55, explains to the little boy, who is moaning in the back of their car.
“I had a lot,” Ben whimpers.
“You did have a lot,” Cohen agrees. “Was that the right thing to have for breakfast do you think, if it gave you such a tummy ache? Maybe Reese’s aren’t the thing to eat for breakfast.”
“Maybe I shouldn’t have picked them,” Ben says in a tiny voice. “I thought of them, so I picked them.”
“I shouldn’t have,” he adds.
Ben then coughs and notes that he didn’t think the candy would make him sick.
"Learning about repercussions. And what IS breakfast anyway???? An evolving conversation I’m having with Ben…." Cohen captioned his post.
“The flinch when Ben coughed is every parent who fears a car puke,” one person wrote in the comments.
Added another, “Ben is becoming our ‘bones or no bones’ — I need to know what he eats for breakfast everyday.”
Cohen loves to share about his parenting experiences with his kids.
In May, he became emotional while recounting a story about a time he felt like he had failed his eldest child.
“Ben goes to a progressive nursery school in New York City. I’m the only single parent and I’m the only gay dad,” Cohen, 55, revealed during a conversation with NPR. It’s an experience Cohen once described as “surprisingly lonely."
During his chat with NPR, Cohen illustrated what he meant by lonely, when he recalled a birthday party Ben attended at a playground.
“It was unseasonably warm and all of a sudden, the sprinklers went on and all the moms suddenly had changes of clothes for the kids so they could run around in the sprinklers and Ben didn’t,” Cohen said. "He was the only child who couldn’t play in the sprinklers.”
The Bravo host said he cried when he got home.
“I just felt so, like, ‘Maybe you don’t know what you’re doing,'" Cohen said.
“And by the way, Ben didn’t care — but I cared,” he added.
Cohen went on to express gratitude for the “fellowship of other gay dads,” including his best friend Anderson Cooper. The CNN anchor is raising kids Wyatt, 3, and Sebastian, 18 months, with his former partner Benjamin Maisani. Ben and Wyatt are BFF, and are often pictured together on Cohen's Instagram.
“Ben sees that Wyatt has two gay dads, and there are two gay dads down the hall from us,” Cohen shared with the “The New Yorker” earlier this year.
Cohen also leans on friends and veteran moms Kelly Ripa and Sarah Jessica Parker when he needs advice.
“Kelly and Sarah Jessica have been really great because I can text them at any time, and be like, ‘Ben is constipated,’” Cohen told TODAY.com in 2022. “Then I know immediately what to run out and get.”
Cohen has a good chuckle when he thinks about what his life was like before he became a dad to Ben and daughter Lucy.
“I accessed a weight about me and a sense of worry that I never really had,” Cohen told TODAY co-hosts Savannah Guthrie and Hoda Kotb in May 2023. “I’m now thinking — what the heck did I worry about? Five years ago, what was I worried about? My tea order?”
Cohen then ticked off a few of his parenting-related stressors including, “schedules, food, allergies and playdates.”
“There are things on my calendar that I’m navigating through that I had never!” Cohen added.
“The Daddy Diaries” author was quick to note he’s happier than he’s ever been. Ben and Lucy are his whole life.
“I want to be everything for them,” he said. “As a single parent, there is the feeling of ‘I need to be there,' and I’m always kicking myself for time not spent with them and trying to dissect what it all means and seeking out parent friends for advice.”
“But I wouldn’t change it for the world, by the way,” he added.
Read on to learn to learn more about Cohen's kids, Ben and Lucy.
Cohen announced the birth of his son, Benjamin Allen, with a sweet selfie on Instagram.
“He is named after my grandfather Ben Allen,” Cohen wrote, in part. “I’m in love. And speechless. And eternally grateful to an incredible surrogate. And I’m a dad. Wow.”
In the picture, a beaming Cohen is shown cradling newborn Ben to his chest. Later that month, Cohen opened up about fatherhood to TODAY anchors Savannah Guthrie and Hoda Kotb.
“There is a comfort in knowing that he’s there waiting for me,” Cohen said. "I went out for my first night away from him, just for dinner with friends the other night, and I was sitting there and I realized, ‘Wow! I love it that he’s there at home for me.’ It’s an anchor. It’s my family. I was like, ‘I love this feeling.’”
When Anderson Cooper welcomed his son Wyatt in 2020, the two boys became besties, just like their dads.
“We’ll get over there and Wyatt will be sleeping and Anderson will say, ‘Do you want to come into his room to wake him up with me?’" Cohen told People in 2021. “And Ben’s like, ‘Yeah.’ And so they go in there and they wake them up and it’s really cute.
“Ben always gives Wyatt a hug and gives him a kiss,” Cohen added.
The following year, Cohen shared a photo of Ben and Wyatt sitting in the host chairs on the set of "Watch What Happens Live."
"New WWHL co-hosts Ben & Wyatt are taking over my show. Thanks for a great run, Bravo!" Cohen captioned the adorable photo.
Over the years, Cohen has treated his Instagram followers to relatable parenting content — like the time Ben had a tantrum during a drive home from a weekend getaway.
“You just watched ‘Bob the Builder’ for six hours while I packed the car up,” Cohen said as the little one continued his meltdown. “You can’t want to watch more.”
“I do!” he whimpered.
"Bob the Builder," is just one of Ben's favorite things. He's also a huge fan of potato chips.
“Ben, what are you doing hiding behind a chair with two bags of chips at 7 in the morning?” Cohen asked in an Instagram video posted on Aug. 19.
“Eating chips because I love chips,” Ben responded.
“I do it every day,” he added.
Ben is clearly hilarious and could have a future in comedy, but his dad predicts he'll be an architect.
In May, Cohen showed his Instagram followers a structure his son created with Magna-tiles.
“What is this, Ben?” Cohen asked. “Is that an airport? And it looks like there’s a place for boats, too.” Ben informed his dad that created a "boat home" and "helicopter home."
“Wow, this is really good! I think you’re gonna be an architect, Ben," Cohen gushed, to which Ben replied, "You can help me finish it right now … I’ll bring over the Magna-Tiles.”
Cohen stopped sharing photos of Ben's face once he became school age to protect the little boy's privacy.
Cohen surprised fans on April 29, 2022, when he announced the arrival of his daughter, Lucy, with a photo.
“HERE’S LUCY!!!!! Meet my daughter, Lucy Eve Cohen!” Cohen wrote on Instagram. “She’s 8 pounds 13 oz and was born at 5:13 pm in New York City!!! Her big brother can’t wait to meet her!”
The TV personality also shouted out his"rock star" surrogate adding, "ALL surrogates are rockstars by the way."
During a 2023 appearance on the "Not Skinny But Not Fat" podcast, Cohen revealed that Lucy was one of the first children born via gestational surrogate in the state of New York.
Gestational surrogacy uses the egg of the mother and the sperm of the father or sperm donor to create an embryo, which is then transferred to the uterus of the surrogate via in vitro fertilization. It was illegal in New York until February 2021, when the Child-Parent Security Act was passed.
Lucy's moniker has special meaning, Cohen explained on "Watch What Happens Live."
"Louis is a big name in my family — two great grandfathers and my dad, all named Louis,” Cohen, who was born in St. Louis, Missouri, said. “So that’s where I got Lucy. I’ve always loved the name Lucy, by the way.”
Her middle name, Eve, also has family significance: Cohen’s mother is named Evelyn.
On Aug. 29, Cohen shared a sweet photo of himself and his 16-month-old daughter, Lucy.
“Preppies,” Cohen wrote.
In the photo, the Bravo host and Lucy are shown dressed in the same aesthetic. He’s wearing blue-and-white striped drawstring pants and a green crewneck sweater, while Lucy, who is perched on her dad’s lap, is shown in pink zipper pajamas.
“Oh I love post bath time jammy babies,” one person wrote in the comments.
Added another, “Oh shhmush. I can smell her head from here, angel baby in her jams. Sweetest photo ever.”
At just 5 months old, Lucy made an appearance at BravoCon with her father. In the photos Cohen posted on Instagram, Lucy is shown with a pink bow in her hair.
“Bring your Daughter to #BravoCon Day!” Cohen wrote on Instagram.
There’s also no shortage of adorable Lucy videos. In February 2023, the proud dad blessed the world with 52 seconds of pure joy: his daughter laughing.
Cohen, who described himself to The New Yorker as "an older dad," said it was important for him to give Ben a sibling.
"If something, God forbid, ever happened to me I don’t want to abandon him. So he and his sister will always have each other. And, by the way, of course I’m so glad I did it, and it’s wonderful, and she’s so cute. And I’m so glad I have a girl now," he gushed.
As of March 2023, Ben was still getting used to having a little sister.
“Ben is alternately just trying to love her and kill her,” Cohen shared on “The Tonight Show," as host Jimmy Fallon held up a photo of the day Ben first met Lucy.
So in other words, they're just like any other brother and sister!
Rachel Paula Abrahamson is a lifestyle reporter who writes for the parenting, health and shop verticals. Her bylines have appeared in The New York Times, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and elsewhere. Rachel lives in the Boston area with her husband and their two daughters. Follow her on Instagram.